It’s not a super popular thing to say in today’s world – with all of our ‘political correctness’ – but it’s still a scientifically proven FACT that men and women are different. It’s not just that their biology is different, it’s been shown time and again that women and men think, process information and feel VERY differently!
Unfortunately, we often see these differences as problems rather than what they really are – ADVANTAGES! Maybe its because we have the sameness of the genders shoved down our throats all the time, maybe its because we aren’t trained to think this way, maybe its because of how we were parented. Whatever the reason, we need to accept the fact that men and women are different and…THAT’S A GOOD THING!
Life would be so boring if we thought the same way all the time. There’s so much spice and variety that is brought to a male-female relationship because of our differences. In many real ways, we complete each other. These differences empower us to be more than we are just by ourselves. In a marriage, we have the ability to unite and overcome anything precisely because we each have unique ways of approaching and solving problems.
We challenge you to take the time to get to know some of the differences between men and women and explore why those differences make you stronger and better than you would be without your spouse. Learn to appreciate what your spouse brings to the marriage that helps you and your family.
Then BE SURE to let your spouse know how much you value who they REALLY are!