Free Marriage Assessment | Adore Your Spouse

The assessment takes just a few minutes to complete and results will be emailed to you instantly!

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First Name *

Last Name *

Email

1. How often do you and your spouse discuss the quality of your relationship and work to improve it? *

Weekly

Monthly

A Couple Times A Year

Almost Never

2. How much honest effort do you and your spouse put into improving your marriage? *

A lot

Some

A little

None

3. Is it hard for you to apologize to your spouse? *

No, almost never

Sometimes

Frequently

Yes, almost always

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4. How do you feel your needs are being met in the following areas? *

Health *

4. How do you feel your needs are being met in the following areas? *

Spiritual *

4. How do you feel your needs are being met in the following areas? *

Mental *

4. How do you feel your needs are being met in the following areas? *

Emotional/Social *

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5. Do you harbor any resentments towards your spouse? *

No, resentment isn't a problem

Not currently but I sometimes battle it

Yes, but very few

I'm very resentful

6. Are you often angry with your spouse? *

Almost never

No, not very often

Yes, some of the time

Almost always

7. Do you struggle to forgive your spouse? *

No, forgiveness isn't a problem in our marriage

No, but I feel I have to forgive them often

Yes, because I can't let it go

Yes, because the problem keeps recurring

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Alcohol or drugs *

Pornography or sex *

Food or sugar *

Gaming or social media *

Anger or abuse/violence *

Work or sports *

Gambling or shopping *

Something not listed *

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9. In my marriage I feel safe: *

Emotionally *

9. In my marriage I feel safe: *

Financially *

9. In my marriage I feel safe: *

Physically *

10. How often does your spouse support you in taking time for yourself? *

11. How responsive is your spouse when you express your needs to them, i.e. intimacy, financial support, affection, attention, etc.? *

12. My spouse expresses interest in my activities and hobbies: *

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13. I don't have any idea why my spouse does what he/she does: *

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

A lot of the time

14. I feel respected by my spouse: *

Most of the time

Often

Sometimes

Almost never

15. I respect my spouse: *

Most of the time

Often

Sometimes

Almost never

16. I feel our differences make our marriage harder: *

No

Rarely

Yes, some of the time

Yes, a lot of the time

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17. I feel my spouse knows me: *

Very well

Fairly well

Ok

Not at all

18. I feel I know my spouse: *

Very well

Fairly well

Ok

Not at all

19. My spouse and I discuss our interests and hobbies: *

Very frequently

Often

Sometimes

Almost never

20. I feel I know all there is to know about my spuose. *

No, I love discovering new things

No, but I sometimes try to know them better

No, but I rarely try to know them better

Yes

21. People can continue to discover new and exciting things about themselves all their lives. *

Yes, self discovery is a lifelong adventure

Yes, they probably could

I don't know

No, people stay pretty much the same

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22. Do you trust your spouse in the following categories? *

Finances *